It is normal to see people getting married in church when they reach a certain age. Time to time we get invitation to attend weddings for either our friends or relatives.
Before people get married they usually date, when dating the couple get to learn more about each other. When the couples feel that they feel that they are now ready to get married, they inform their relatives, then set a date for the wedding.
Counselling sessions are very important for couples who are planning to get married. Each person in relationship is taught their role in the marriage. They are taught some of the problems that couples might go through when married and how to solve them. The counselling is mostly done by church leaders and also the brides and grooms relatives.
We have witnessed cases where at a certain stage in marriage couples start experiencing marital problems. They couple spend more time away from each other and arguments become part of their daily life. Divorce may be mentioned in one of the partner, when the arguments become intense.
In extreme cases the couple choose to go ahead and get a divorce. In such cases it is advisable to consider going for counselling. Therapist sessions are conducted how they couples feels it’s best for them.
Understanding the difficult situations that the couples are going through at the moment are some of the ways the therapist will try to reconcile them. During counselling sessions the counsellor will ask the couple to say about the first days of their relationship. Study has shown that couples going through difficult situation in their lives are likely to start drifting away from each other.
When people get married their main goal is usually happiness, companionship, satisfaction and support, when it reaches a point where those needs are not being meet, disputes between the couple will start to rise. The marriage counselor will try and see how both of you can work to getting back to a place where those needs were been accomplished.
When it comes to how to have a happy marriage, there are many books which you can buy and read. As part of the marriage counselling, couples are advised to read certain books that are recommended by the therapist. On the internet you can also get books on marriage and relationship, people planning to get married soon or are in relationship it is advisable to read them.
After people get married, if they want they can start having babies. It is common to see parents looking for a babysitter for their children, most parents are busy with other things like work so they cannot manage to monitor their kids all the time. When looking for a babysitter before hiring one, it is advisable to do a background check on them.